Stress is inescapable,
but learning how to conquer it may be the best self-care goal you initiate and achieve this month,
week, or day.
The ideas in this post are intended to help you identify your daily stressors, and see them as challenges instead of obstacles.
Look below to discover powerful self-care practices that are known to zap stress in the bud. Try each one on for size, and choose those that resonate with you. Just know, all can restore physical, mental, and emotional energy lost to stress.
1. Identify your stressors. Learn what triggers tension, anxiety,
and unease. Do you agonize about family or personal relationship issues, stew
about work related dissatisfaction or job insecurity, feel frantic about a lack of money or debt, or suffer from poor self-image or low self-esteem?
When you practice noticing how often your default setting is negativity and worst case scenario, you're taking the first step in replacing this habit, with more effective coping skills.
Stressed
in America, a post from the Psychological Association of America's Website describes long-term stress more fully, so read it to learn details.
2. Let go of what you can't control. Affirm you are powerless over every other person, place, or thing in your life. Tell yourself that no amount of worry or obsession about someone else's actions or thinking will help you figure out how to change them.
Reverting to a fearful place is an old pattern, and waste of your precious time.
3. Make Sleep a Priority. Sleep deprivation makes you more
susceptible to stress. Go to sleep at a consistent time every night and try to
get from 7-8 hrs. a sleep a night. More about good sleep habits from the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) here.
Plan to squeeze in a little extra shut-eye when you need it, and take a 5-10 minute power nap or even a siesta. A 30 minute snooze can
boost energy, bring clarity to thinking, and prevent you from becoming groggy or affect your nighttime
sleep.
4. Just say no. Say no to those things you do, if the only reason you do them is out of obligation. People pleasing gives you less time for those things that bring you joy.
Before you agree to take on a new project or buy a new thing say, "I need time to consider that" or "I'll get back to you on that." When you give yourself a chance to pause, you quickly take control of your choice to plan your response. Prevent overextending yourself or your budget by not giving in to doing things your self-preservation instinct feels uncomfortable doing.
5. Watch what you eat. Hunger can worsen your stress level. Don't skip meals, and keep healthy, energy-boosting snacks on hand. A few minutes of food prep planning can help you avoid grabbing high-sugar or high fat snack foods.
Healthful snack foods include fresh fruit and vegetables, and other plant-based proteins
like beans, legumes, and whole grains. Stave off cravings for
unhealthy foods, by eating an watermelon, apple, orange, banana, peach, celery, carrots, spoon of peanut butter, or veggie smoothie. Nutrient-rich foods including those mentioned above, work to satisfy hunger and elevate your mood.
6. Breathe
deeply. Do you get stressed waiting at the drive up line for your
morning coffee or feel drained just thinking of how many tasks you have to do?
Take slow deep breaths and count to thirty. Deep slow breathing prevents anxiety and works to release built up tension anywhere in your body or mind. Specific instructions for deep body breathing is as simple as a, b, and c.
a. Sit comfortably or recline.
Next, place one hand on your stomach and place your other hand over your heart.
b. Inhale slowly until
you feel your stomach rise. Hold your breath for a moment.
c. Exhale slowly. Feel
your stomach fall. Repeat until you feel calm and more relaxed.
7. Enjoy regular exercise. Walking, especially in a natural setting, is an easy, economical way to
reduce stress.
If you prefer, take part in a sport solo or with family or friends. Do any activity that you like including bike riding, yoga, hiking, baseball, tennis, or ballroom dancing. When you do something you find interesting or fun, it can make the time fly by and rev up your engine as well.
When your body, mind, or spirit feels uptight, stretch at your desk, or climb a flight of stairs instead of eating that donut. Research from the Anxiety & Depression Association of America shows that exercise
is considered vital for maintaining mental fitness and reducing stress. Exercise reduces fatigue, improves alertness and concentration, and can be especially helpful when stress has depleted your energy or ability to
concentrate.
8. Take a Play/Self-care Break. Find a hobby or pastime that makes you feel lighthearted and just do it for 5-10 minutes, either before or after you feel stressed out. Then, laugh and smile often. Laughter has proven to lower levels of
stress hormones, reduce inflammation in the arteries, and increase
"good" HDL cholesterol.
Additional Reading
Before you go, please comment below. What self-care habits work to manage stress for you?
Would you like to set the intention to conquer stress this month, week, or today and why?
What areas do you still need to work on to eliminate underlying issues?
This post is not intended as medical or mental health advice, and is presented for your information only.
"If you are unable to reduce
your stress or prevent future stressful episodes despite your best efforts, ask
your doctor for a referral to a mental health specialist who treats anxiety and
stress." Quote from Healthline.
Wishing you a happy low stress season, and many moments where you make the decision to self-care more and stress less.
