This post has been updated 5/o7/2024
Gratitude
Helps You:
See goodness in your life, instead of
taking it for granted.
Improve your sense of well-being.
Enhance relationships.
Shift perspective to positives.
Reduce stress.
Lighten your mood.
Create energy that helps you feel fully alive.
Empower yourself.
Generate compassion and generosity toward others.
Tap into the lovingkindness inside you.
Kindle inspiration and creativity.
Sleep contentedly.
Integrate mind with body to boost immune system, develop resilience to
setbacks, and lower blood pressure.
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See what I mean? Giving thanks stimulates those warm, fuzzy, feelings as well
as improves overall wellness.
Please try the techniques listed below. Each is intended to help you make
a gratitude practice a mindful part of your self-care plan.
3 Tips to Help with a Gratitude Practice
1. Write in a Gratitude Journal
Designate a paper bound notebook or journal as a gratitude journal. Use a pen with
ink in the color you consider to be a grateful color. Try using a marker,
chalk, or colored pencils if you prefer.
Journal writing is a tangible, grounding way to acknowledge and record the
gifts in your life. Writing with colors adds color energy to the mix, and helps
you tune into your senses and the present moment.
Whether you journal every day, three times a week, or once a week, commit to a
regular time to journal. Then, honor your commitment.
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2. Send thank-you notes
Handwritten thank-you
notes are a meaningful way to show others you were touched by their words,
gestures, hospitality, understanding, time, or effort. The note can be brief,
but make it as specific as possible. Mention the other person's act of
kindness, and what it meant to you.
Sit down with your children, after they have received a gift. Discuss the idea
that presents and other acts of kindness like a new book or toy or an outing
to the beach with a friend's family aren't their birthright.
Teach kids a valuable life lesson by following through. This is a good way to
help children develop a lifelong practice of acknowledging gifts in their
lives. If they are too young to write, a picture can say thank you too.
Make gratitude part of your self-care routine.
Notice those people who make your life richer. The first month, send one of
them a written thank you note. Then look for and send a thank you note to
someone the next month, and so on. Then, take a moment to write and mail a
thank you note to yourself.
Be kind and send a simple thank you note or at least call when you receive a gift. Set a good example for your children. Express your thanks in person, email, or over the phone.
Just remember, nothing beats a thank-you note written on paper and sent in
an envelope. It conveys the message that you took time to do it, and are
grateful for that person's thoughtfulness. In fact, it can turn an acquaintance
into a friend.
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3. Curtail complaining for 24 hours
This is a big one. Rather than find fault with others or yourself, make a healthier choice and search for hope and possibility in every
situation.
This applies to difficult people or conditions at work, at home, in your
community, with social contacts, and with world leaders and issues.
A challenging or stressful incident can teach you much about your inner strengths,
and heighten patience, courage, and resourcefulness.
First, admit you're uncomfortable when people don't act the way you think is
right or things don't go your way.
Look at this need to control with self-compassion. Then use kind eyes to lighten
your perspective. A gentle
attitude helps reduce anxiety, stress, and self judgment.
Non-attachment allows you to observe which things you are powerless over, or
reveals solutions you may not have thought of before.
Use this practice of not complaining one day at a time, and each day start
fresh. Observe things without finding fault, and you'll have clear vision about
what is working in your life.
Gratitude
Improves Your Outlook
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Before you go please comment in the space provided below.
What helps you focus on gratitude and what happens when you do?
Which of the 3 gratitude development practices above haven't you tried, but
appeal to you? Please explain.
Have you reaped the rewards of a gratitude practice? In what ways?
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Thanks for the visit and know that I'm grateful for YOU! 💗
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